The Power of Talking to Strangers

I have always been fascinated by the science of talking to strangers. As humans, we require social interactions in order thrive. It is a basic human need that is pertinent to our wellbeing, just as is food and water. Many studies show that talking to strangers can leave us feeling happier and more fulfilled. Yet, many people think that talking to strangers is awkward or intimidating, so they avoid it. We often focus on our social connections with family and friends, but research shows that talking to strangers can provide a significant boost to our well-being. 

When I was younger, I was shocked by how happy I would walk away from a conversation with a stranger. Oddly, someone that I barely knew, but could find a commonality with, made me feel more comforted that I had expected. It was strange to me that such a casual conversation made my day feel a lot brighter. Why was it that talking about something as simple as the weather, or a mutual interest, made me feel so connected? I also found that compliments from strangers often meant more to me than a compliment from a close friend. 

It turns out that these small interactions with strangers produce chemicals like dopamine and oxytocin, boosting our mood and creating a sense of belonging. Even such small and seemingly insignificant interactions can make us feel more connected to the world around us. You would be surprised with the shared experiences you could find with someone sitting next to you, whether in the waiting room,  on the train, or at a coffee shop. These interactions remind us that we are part of a larger community. Sometimes, a friendly stranger is all that we need to remember we are not alone. 

Comments

  1. Alex Ster Writ 340October 12, 2024 at 12:27 PM

    Bella, I love the topic that you chose to write about! I think speaking with strangers can sometimes be the most meaningful and in depth conversations one can have. I think friendly strangers serve as a reminder at times that we should all be kind to everyone as well.

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  2. LeoluuuOctober 13, 2024 at 7:11 PM

    This is an amazing topic to write about, and you are completely right about the stranger experience. I am not great at this, but I admire my friends that have the skill to randomly approach strangers in a friendly way. I hope that I will be better at approaching strangers in the future.

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  3. Araz MehrabiOctober 14, 2024 at 3:08 PM

    You are very right, for so long in high school I stayed and talked to people only from the group of friends I know. When I got my job right after high school as a teller at a bank. I started sparking up many conversations with random people that walked in. Not only did I build a connection, but every time also they walk in now it feels like I have known them forever

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  4. AvosOctober 17, 2024 at 2:17 PM

    I one hundred percent agree with your stance on conversing with strangers. It could bring us so many joys and points of views that we never really thought of. Awesome work Bella.

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  5. Tara 340October 17, 2024 at 11:38 PM

    Hi Bella I love that you chose to write about this topic because I agree talking to strangers can lead to unexpectedly meaningful moments in someones day. I know we learn not to talk to strangers when we are younger, but I always appreciate it when someone goes out of their way to give a compliment because sometimes means more coming from a stranger. I try to do the same for people because you never know how much it can brighten someones day.

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  6. Aidan BananOctober 21, 2024 at 12:56 PM

    This is something I want to do more. Just being open to new conversations creates opportunities and memories. Being closed off doesn't allow you to fully live.

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